Like confidential secretaries, whose duties go beyond mere typesetting and making tea for their bosses, bedrooms are those spaces in houses where confidential events take place.
Besides being a place where people take their rest after the day’s work activities, it is one particular room where everyone feels very free to let go of their guards. Bedrooms are places where people get out of whatever clothing they have on no matter who they are and they feel confident moving around naked.
Bedrooms are rooms for special people, intimate people for intimate stuff. Romantic events, largely, take place there, hence, it should be made cosy, beautiful, seductive, appealing and captivating. All of these should be felt both physically and psychologically by anyone who enters the room.
Unfortunately, due to the ever-busy schedule of humans and our not-too-refined nature, people tend to turn these rooms into other rooms where other activities are carried out which is quite unhealthy and contradictory to the real purpose that the bedrooms are actually designed for.
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If you want to restore fun and real intimacy back to your relationship, the following are things that you should get rid of in your room as soon as possible:
Food
If you are one of the many people who take delight or see nothing wrong in eating food in their bedrooms, now is the time to stop. Having your meal or eating edibles on the bed is very dirty because you will most likely not wash your hands after the meal and also not wash your sheets if something spills on it. Besides being a dirty attitude, bad etiquette, your bedroom is not supposed to be an extension of your kitchen or dining room. It should not have the same smell of food as those two places mentioned. Believe it or not, it will always distract any romantic person. I mean when you are supposed to have signals tilting towards romance in a place like that, you will be redirecting your partner’s sub-consciousness to somewhere else probably the kitchen or a public restaurant.
It is a place that should ordinarily lure you to the bed and not the kitchen or anywhere else.
Eating in bed is most times associated with another activity like watching the television or reading. This might lead to overeating and put you at risk of indigestion. Because you are also likely to leave dirty dishes in the room, you also open a room as special as that to pests, which is equally very unromantic if not disgusting.
Television
Just like mobile phones, installing a television set in your bedroom is quite a huge distraction. It can completely deprive you of staying close with each other. But if you are the purposeful type you can determine the channel and what you wish to watch.
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Cellphone
Everyone is guilty of this. But cellphones shouldn’t be found in your bedroom to get as much comfort as possible. The incessant vibration and ringing of phones, as well as the ever-present social media distractions, are not just harmful to your health, they are very negative on your sexual life.
Desks
The bedroom should be mainly for you to get rest and have fun, so there should be no association of work with your place of rest.
You can create a space in your living room or corridor to carry out your office works. Again, most people are guilty of this.
Pets
Pets generally mess up the room and cause a lot of distractions if they are not well-trained and monitored. They infect the room with germs, fleas and so on.
If you really have to sleep close to your pet for whatever reason, you can make another bed for it in another room. Imagine an animal watching while you are making love?
Old and low-quality mattress and pillows
Uncomfortable mattresses always ruin a good time in the bedroom. So, if you haven’t changed yours in more than 10 years, you need to go spend that money now. Remember the festive season is here and you’ve got a lot of fun to catch.
Also, there are different pillows for different sleeping patterns of people, so it is advisable to buy pillows that go with your sleeping style to give you an enjoyable rest and utmost fun.
Very bright colour
Painting your bedroom walls with very bright colours would not give you the best environment for real romance.
According to a recent survey, shades of blue, yellow, silver, green, and orange are the most conducive for relaxation while brown, grey and purple painted rooms are the worst.
As I said, the year is fast running to an end, so, it will be good to look round to see where you have been obstructing the free flow of intimacy in your relationship and make a timely adjustment.
