Yemisi Olusina
Relationship is all about fun. It is about explorations, adventures and discoveries of new things. But how would you say you had fared in your own relationship in Year 2018? Had it been fun? Were you fun-filled? Or did you feel denied by your spouse in your relationship?
Well, whatever the result of your assessment of last year, the New Year is here and there are rooms for you to achieve a better relationship.
Topmost is that you must do all things to ignite fun in your relationships and ensure that your bedroom is not turned to bored room. Sampling a sensual smorgasbord is just the way out. If you must know, mixing up your sex routine will bring mystery and adventure to your love life, these two qualities will keep things fresh between the sheets.
Taking it slow makes it sweeter
When you have the gift of time, languishing in supersensory, soulful lovemaking can be a rhapsodic revelation…and a relationship booster. With sensual sex, it’s not all about where you and your guy are going but the process that gets you there. If you slow down and attempt to keep your orgasm at bay, focusing on exploring every inch of each other’s body and savoring your time together, the end result, I tell you will waoh you. It will definitely be one experience like never. Unfortunately, most men employ the fire brigade approach which makes love making very boring. Please guys, don’t do this in the New Year. Let us explore and make it different.
The emotional benefits are long-lasting too. Knowing that he cares enough to lavish his love on you for hours, and that you’re his number one priority, builds confidence and security. Besides, your bond in general will feel more intimate because you’ve made the bedroom a place for enjoying each other, not just sexual sensations.
Get a quickie
A quickie is always like an earthquake: It gets your adrenaline rushing. It is over in a flash, and leaves you weak in the knees. Initiating a quickie can be the ultimate compliment to your guy because it shows how deeply you desire him. So, ladies, take the lead and see how cool this can be.
For instance, when he’s had a stressful day, a fast and furious romp really will take the edge off. When you can tell he’s in a horny, hasty mood, don’t bother fully undressing — just do the pulling out for him and the pushing aside for yourself.
Do a show-off
Experts say that watching a woman pleasure herself is near the top of most men’s fantasy wishlists. But it’s not just a very personal peep show; it’s a chance to teach him exactly how you like to be manhandled. Revealing to your guy how you master your own domain is one of the most secretive and intimate things you can do.
Try it wild
Making love on all fours (aka doggie-style) can be wild and fun at the same time. Grab his hands and wrap them around your waist, a cue that you want him to hold on and thrust. I’m sure it won’t take a speech for him to get the message. Keep your neck down. It’ll help you loosen up all the way down your spine. Beloved, try this and have a feel of the fun. The more writhing and bucking, the better.
Give her dominion
Enough of him doing all the pouncing and pawing, ladies, take charge. To make this authentic and not staged, you should wait until you’re really randy to tell him to allow you be in charge. Pin him down and lead him to do your will. He’ll happily submit to your sexy request.
Surrender to him
Men are conquest-loving creatures, which is why they get so hot when you let them take over. If he feels like he’s at the top of his game, your surrender is a power trip and a huge turn-on. During foreplay, let him have his way and give a good response too. If you tell a man what you want him to do, you are boosting his ego by telling him stylishly that he has the skills to get you there.
Love making is sweet when both parties are determined to make it fun. See it from a different dimension, make up your mind also to get adventurous with it and you will keep the heat under the sheets throughout this New Year.
Have a sensuous Year.
