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Sexy things men do that they don’t know

Often times, what we do when it comes to  stuffs that get the bedsheets hot are always about women. Meanwhile, there are many things that men do too that set women on fire and make them easy prey to men. Some of those things are what we will be focusing on here this week.

Basically, when men talk about what they find super attractive about a certain woman, the list usually involves a lot of body parts. But when women describe what they find attractive about a man, it often comes down to body language; the way he walks, the way he holds a glass, even the way he buttons his shirt can be huge, inexplicable turn-ons. Not that a girl can’t appreciate a tall frame but more often than not, it’s little gestures that can drive a woman wild. And what’s funny about it is that the guy doesn’t even realise he’s doing something that’s a turn-on. You can go through the following for more tips:

 

Placing a hand on the small of a woman’s back, guiding her to her seat

Body language experts will say that, when a man puts his hand on your upper back, it can be a friendly gesture, but a hand on the lower back always implies desire. In addition to being a subtle mark of attraction, it’s also quite chivalrous, as you are at once leading her while also letting her go first. (It goes without saying that this is a move that can only be done with a woman you’re dating.

 

Extending an arm against the back of her chair

This is particularly nice when you’re in a restaurant together, or at a family function, as it sends a subtle signal to everyone that she’s your girl and you’re proud of her.

 

Wrapping an arm around her waist

This is a really nice protective gesture women adore, especially when you’re walking through a dodgy area, but it’s somehow especially exciting when the man does it if he’s on a phone call, to remind his girl that just because he’s talking to someone else doesn’t mean he’s forgotten her.

Taking a wallet out of the front pants pocket

In theory, this should not be more attractive than taking your wallet out of your pocket, which in many ways is the more civilised move, but for some reason that lean back and hand slide into a pair of jeans is irresistible.

 

Rolling a buttoned-up shirt to the elbows

Of all the things men do that they don’t  realise is attractive, this got the top spot. For some reason, it is way more of a turn on when a man buttoned-up his rolled-up shirt.

 

The “soft eyes” gaze

Although some women find men that are dominant and assertivve  attractive, there is one good quality that thrills women. One of these is when she’s reading or putting on makeup and she looks up to find her man looking at her with eyes that suddenly resemble tiny pools of water. As one user put it, “‘I’ll catch my boyfriend looking at me with that softer look, and I’ll say, teasingly, ‘You’re staring!’ and he’ll say, ‘Gazing!’ and look away. The next minute I see him looking at like that again, and every time, it makes my heart squeeze,” shared one woman. No wonder women are more attracted to men with more feminine features for long-term relationships.

 

Wearing a nice sweater or a plain Tee shirt

Whether you like it or not, a lot of women have described seeing a muscular man in a sweater or t-shirt, especially one that is  fitted and snuggly the same way men describe seeing a figure-eight woman in a bathing suit or a fitted dress. Perhaps, women have been inculcated into thinking this is attractive or, perhaps, it’s just a turn-on because it’s cuddly and protective. Plus, it gives a woman some naughty ideas.

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Stretching while standing

When a man stretches and his shirt rises so that the V-shape of his pelvis is just slightly visible, it’s even better than being fully shirtless. It is very sexy.

 

Being a gentleman

The difference between being “chivalrous” and “patronising” is all in the tone and body language. If you do something for a woman in a condescending way, that’s not attractive. But when you do it just to be nice, it is.

On several occasions, many women had pointed that there’s something charming and intimate about a man offering them their seats, opening for them the car door before entering to drive and brushing her hair out of the way when helping her with her shirts and things like that.

Generally, doing extra work towards making your woman feel good about you is simply sexy.

 

Fixing something

You may not know this but just being handy to fix one or two things at home or anywhere drives women wild.

 

Running your fingers through your hair

This may sound odd but it sure sends a sensuous signal. For instance, when you as a man unconsciously run your fingers through your hair like while thinking of how to figure things out or after working out to get the sweat off your forehead, there is this feeling it sends down their spine.

 

Listening intently

Being able to remember personal details is another trait that gets into most women. “A guy just made a comment to me about how my aunt worked at the zoo and had seen me and fallen in love with the way she went about her duties.

That was many years ago, I instantly lost it…(one irrelevant tale) but her husband listened. It feels good to know you’re listened to, even if it’s sometimes about the mundane details of your life.

The good thing about this is that it makes women desire you.

 

Keeping your fingernails short

Unlike many years ago when wearing long nails was a fashion, these days, women love it short.

Since this is an easy fix, if you are one of those men, who still keep the nail on your last finger long, just go and cut it. Women love men’s finger nails short and when those palms are now well manicured, I mean soft and clean, they go weak and become an easy prey for you. Believe me, it’s a secret.

 

Doing something romantic

A lot of men think that being “romantic” means taking a woman out for a really expensive dinner or taking her on a boat ride through a lake filled with swans, but that’s not true.

Oftentimes, the most romantic gestures stem from simply being thoughtful, like making her a cup of coffee every morning, or doing the dishes one night when you know she’ll be tired from coming home late, or taking her to the bench where you had your first kiss.

 

Spending time with kids

Seeing a man interact well with children sends a subconscious, evolutionary signal to a woman any day.

For instance, just watching a guy get down on one knee and patiently explain something complicated to a child can send shivers through a woman.

Unfortunately, most men see this as majorly women’s beat, so, they look the other way. This is wrong and they are robbing themselves of free and sweet sex.

 

Wrapping your arms around her

Everyone knows that being protective is sexy to a woman on a deep, primal level. And nothing makes a woman feel safer or adored than when her man envelopes her with his body, especially when he’s standing behind her. Honestly, its like the Atlas, holding the world in his arms.

 

Doing chores

To most women, watching their men cooking and doing one house chore or another, especially when he envisaged that they would be closing late from work, makes their knees give way for him.

“I can stand there and watch him all day long. He’s bustling around, chopping veggies and putting boiled meats in steaming stew and stirring things around in a pot, all confident and sure-like is sexy.

He thinks he’s just making dinner. What he doesn’t know is that by the time the meal is ready, after watching him act so competent and unself-conscious and focused on making the food, I want to rip his clothes off and have my way with him first, and eat dinner later,” says 42-year-old Mrs.  Bosede Ige.

 

Focusing on a task

“I love the look a guy has on his face when he is trying to figure something out,” a woman once wrote. Just as with cooking, reading and being passionate about a topic, it’s a sign that a man doesn’t doesn’t have the attention span of a three-year-old.

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