Sex is one natural act that millions of people engage in everyday. Besides being an amazing way to get intimate with your partner, it also offers you and your man quite a large number of health benefits. It improves sleep and lowers stress levels, improves the immune system just to mention a few.
Unfortunately, if your man is not good in bed, it will be difficult for you to experience the pleasure and the health benefit that sex offers. Most worrisome is the fact that most women do not know if their men are giving them enough or not. Ask them if their men are good, they are simply put in a fix, after all, they have children and their men still have sex with them.
Well, you can really put them on a scale. I mean you as a woman can actually tell if a guy is bad in bed even before he pulls his clothes off. Below are some definite tips that will help you.
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If he detests physical exercise. When your man sees no reason to hit the gym or do any physical exercise, no matter how basic before he goes to bed or in the morning after he wakes up, this is a bad sign. Chances are high that he will not please you in bed. Don’t forget that s*x is nothing but a workout.
If he seems to be very lazy such that when he orders you around for the simplest of tasks instead of getting up and doing it himself, he is likely not going to be up to task during sex. He will be lazy in bed and will be expecting you to do everything needed to make your time in bed real fun.
When he does not kiss right. Sex should be intimate between you and your man. So, if you cannot stand the way he kisses you or if he refuses to kiss you at all, then something is wrong. This will most likely make that “moment” less intimate and special.
If he does not know the proper way to touch her.
One major complaint women have about men is about foreplay. It’s something even many experienced guys get totally, horribly wrong. A sexologist friend once said that she had to like the way a man’s casual touch feels on her skin. “If I unconsciously tense up and pull away from his touch, it simply means that my system is resisting him and if this is so, there is no way he can ever please me when we make love.”
Another woman also said, “If he touches me too much like hurting me in the name of patting my thigh or he does not touch me enough as in when he keeps his arms crossed like a bouncer, I can tell he won’t know how to please me when things get more intimate.”
Guys who only care about themselves are often unable to thoroughly satisfy their partners since they would not listen or ask about what their partners enjoy in the bed. They are only concerned about their interests, what they feel about themselves and never ask about your own feeling. This set of men is most unlikely to please you during sex.
They are the type who tends to think about how cool they feel and tend to fail in the department of pleasuring their partners. Try and pay attention to this, these guys would usually only care about the amount of satisfaction they get out of sex and forget about you.
If he is not willing to make corrections. When a guy does not want to take any form of criticism or wishes to talk about the potential mistakes he made during sex, he is simply not a good guy when it comes to the issue of sex. Once you have had sex, as far as he is concerned, he is okay. He is not interested in improving on his errors to be able to deliver a higher level of pleasure and satisfaction to you.
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If he seems to be focused on having ejaculation alone: During sex, if the guy seems to be racing toward reaching an orgasm and seems to be only focused on ejaculating, then it means he is not interested in how you feel or the level you are. He is simply not a fantastic man in bed. This is because most men after reaching ejaculation go limp. So, if he is the type that has no time to pay attention to satisfying your needs, he is simply not great in bed. You will have a clue to this if he is the type that gives priority to television programmes or some games he bought instead of you. If you are not the main priority on your boyfriend’s mind, it is also a definite sign that he is not going to be giving you his undivided attention in the bed.
If he is uncoordinated: Guys who seem to be uncoordinated and like they have not a direction in life are also more likely to be likewise in the bedroom – not sure what they need to do or where that steamy session of sex is taking them.
